With the pandemic hitting us back in 2020 modern dating has changed, and continues to change. I notice more and more that there has been a shift in people’s thinking and mindset when it comes to meeting a new person.
It is interesting to see that some people during these times have rediscovered themselves and realised the importance of sharing our lives and how much more fulfilling it is to have someone special, whilst others find that being single is best for them and they never want to change that.
As they say “each to their own”, and in many cases before getting into a relationship with another soul, it would first be helpful to have a good relationship with ourselves. There isn’t necessarily such thing as “you complete me” we are already complete and don’t need to be fixed. Once you have that self awareness you would know you have everything you need within you. And if you do want to be in a fulfilling healthy relationship that awareness will help to magnify your experience.
There are some exercises you can do to expand your awareness which I will cover in my coaching program. It will help to realise your potential which will help you feel more joy, abundance of love for yourself and others on a daily basis.
There are a number of benefits and positives we can focus on during pandemic dating:
- People are a lot more connected with themselves and who they really are
- You can get to know someone before meeting in person
- You can save time, energy and money by talking to someone on Zoom
- It is a lot easier for some people to be more open when they are at the comfort of their home and are not influenced by external environment
- If you establish there is no chemistry and you may have different goals you can make at least make friends or even business partners, you never know.
There may be certain risks involved into dating these days but like with anything, there are positives and negatives depending on how you look at things. Just like leaving the house can be risky.
If you happen to have concerns or something you want to know in advance about your potential partner, go ahead and ask them up front to avoid disappointments in the future. It can also open up a level of honesty and trust which is essential to lay a strong foundation first and build up from there.
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